I started out posting about this in r/NSFWIAMA…so for those who didn’t see that, here’s the backstory. Met a woman in an r4r type group and we started chatting about a month back. Eventually the conversation went sexual and she (I’ll call her “J”) talks about never having the chance to be submissive but wanting it. I have been into the lifestyle for over 10 years, so sure, if she wants it, I’ve got no problems giving it.
Now everyone jokes about long distance relationships and how it’s all fun and games until someone books a plane ticket. Well we live in the same state, only 4 hours apart. So I mention casually one day to J that she should come visit, even if it’s just for a day. J almost immediately agrees and we are looking at hotel rooms. Eventually we settle on one about 20 minutes from my work. A nice little suite with a desk, couch, and bed. (Really only the last thing would be the important one.) J books the room not even 10 minutes later.