F 34. My husband can’t get me pregnant due to his medical condition. So we have his best friend do this job for us and he did it thrice. [MF]

I will try to keep this post as concise as possible to keep it short. My husband, has this condition of necrospermia. That is his semen contains mostly of dead sperms which prevented my chance of getting pregnant by him. So we opted for IVF. Twice. And failed both the times. The procedure drained us both emotionally and financially and I decided that I am not gonna do this for the third time.

A little later it was my husband who came up with this idea of natural insemination. He knew he can’t so we needed someone else to help us with this. I was in the middle ground at first given how serious this whole thing is. After some talks my husband nominated his candidate- his best friend. Let’s call him Andy. I have known Andy since I was dating my husband and he is a good friend of mine as well. And at this point of time he was perhaps the guy whom we could trust the most with this.