I’d like to share a very fun experience I’ve had with my wife the other night.
Since we’re not formally in a female-led relationship or a Femdom one, each such experience is a delight, despite the challenges.
Last night I came to bed late, as my wife was listening to an audiobook she particularly enjoyed.
She was alert and excited despite the late hour, and I could tell she was a bit worked up. We caressed each other and cuddled for a bit while she was telling me about the book. Given I was definitely worked-up that evening, I gently probed for my chances at some fun. She had a different idea in mind.
She said: “I want something. I want you to please me and you’re not going to orgasm tonight. I am telling you this straight up so you know you should focus only on *my* pleasure”. It was clear she wants her orgasms and she wants good ones.
I wholeheartedly agreed – this was something I have offered many times in the past, as I truly enjoy giving pleasure to my woman, and I also like the idea of denial (though in practice, as will be proven later, it’s very hard). I secretly hoped she would take mercy on me at the end and allow me some relief, given I was already worked-up.