So last year after going to a concert and being a bit drunk, asked my fiancé if she would be willing to have sex with another man, and me, in a threesome. It had come up before that I had fantasized about watching her have sex. But it was more in the context of being able to step away and watch us have sex from outside of my body. I couldn't picture this man that she'd have sex with. It was all about watching her enjoying immense sexual pleasure. Anyway, she said yes, that she thinks she would enjoy that.
A little time goes by and I'm trying to figure out the best way about finding another man. I know I don't want it to be anybody either of us currently knows. I downloaded an ap for my phone, and joined a few swingers sites and eventually placed an ad on Craigslist. This ad got a ton of responses. But it seemed that the guys that were attractive and seemed normal were few and far between. Most conversations seemed to stall when I asked them if they were married, or committed, and if they were, if they were in an open relationship.I don't want to be a part of someone cheating. We finally found one and decided to meet him for a show, so we could hang out and get to know him a bit before we scheduled a more intimate meeting. This initial meeting went well and we invited him to our home the next week. We were in good communication and were all set, until an hour before he was supposed to be there. He flaked. We tried to get together with him another time or two, but it just didn't happen.