When I [M] picked up an older woman[F] in the bar a few years ago…

A few years back when I was mid-30’s and we could all head out without having to worry about certain things, I met a cute older lady at the bar.

It started with a couple of cheeky comments at the bar as we were both waiting for drinks, she looked a similar age to me, long brown hair, fairly low cut top and fitted jeans. As the night went on I noticed she kept looking over (obviously I was looking over at her too). She gave me a smile and motioned towards the bar. We met there, and the chat picked up again and got more flirty. This is where I found out she was called Sally, and was 48, which she definitely did not look, as stated earlier!

We had a couple of drinks together, and the sexual tension was palpable, so I asked if she fancied coming back to mine. She quickly agreed, and we finished our drinks and left the bar. There was a lot of kissing and groping on the short walk back to mine, as we were like teenagers.

[M]y night with an older woman

So this story is from a couple of years back, I had just broken up with a long term girlfriend, moved out into my own place, and so decided to embrace my slutty side.

One of the first things I did was download Tinder, now I am not adonis but I do ok for myself, I am 6ft, short brown hair, in shape but not a gym guy. One of my matches was Emma, who at 47, was a little older than me but she looked good. We chatted about the usual mundane stuff, getting to know each other etc, then it got flirty. We teased each other, found out what the other liked and so on.

One Friday I had been out for a work ‘lunch’, or just a reason to booze on the company really, so fuelled by the drinks I messaged Emma, and the conversation got steamy. Now we hadn’t met, yet, so I jokingly said that I would be home in an hour, and she is more than welcome to head over. And, to my surprise, she agreed.