I started dating a little later than my friends, around 19. I was friends with a lot of guys in high school, but no one seemed to want to date me, same during my freshman year of college. I finally got on OKCupid, and met a guy. Nice, nerdy, 4 years older but only a little more experienced than me. I was so ready to get laid. On our second date we went from my first kiss ever to being mostly naked with him fingering me in the back of his minivan (hey, it gave us a lot of space to ourselves…) within the span of about 5 hours. He asked if I would be okay with him giving me oral, but we didn’t get to it. I was so into it, but then we saw the blue and red flashing lights outside the window.
We luckily were not arrested, but told to move it along. Our next date was in the daytime in a park, and we made out but couldn’t do much else. Our fourth date, I went to visit him at work. He worked at a college. It was the summer, and his entire building was mostly deserted. After making out in his office, he tucked his erection up into his belt and gave me a little tour of the building. We ended in a room that had a couch.