Well so this happened a few years back. I was a senior in hs, 18 years old, shy and pretty lonely overall. My hormones had been building for a long time and I kept toying with the idea of losing it. Meeting someone in person would never work out cause my shyness / insecurities so I stuck to tinder and craigslist.
Well long story short, I talked to a lot of guys but found one I really enjoyed talking to. He was a lot older which was both a pro and con, but overall he was able to make me feel comfortable enough to meet up with him.
So after days of talking to him, we agreed to meet up. Sex was discussed before hand but he knew I might not be up for it. We met at a Starbucks in his neighborhood, chatted there a bit and then agreeed to go to his house.
After getting to his house(which was super nice), we sat in the living room on his couch and had a conversation. It was awkward at first cause I was so nervous but he did a great job of making me feel comfortable. He kept the conversation going and relaxed me by giving me a shoulder massage.