My ex was introduced by a work friend; but we only had a short dating phase. She (F30) and I (M30)didn’t hit it off at the time. We stayed in touch, casually running into each other at parties. There was a one-time “hookup” after our relationship ended sexless; but she was clear I wasn’t the guy she wanted long-term. Such is life.
We stayed in contact on snapchat of all places, and eventually she was telling me about her engagement. Her boyfriend got her pregnant with her second child and he put a ring on it. Only problem was, for whatever reason, he refused to touch her after she got pregnant. Like, AT ALL.
She quickly changed the topic to her son’s school field trip and how she wanted to borrow $40. Fiancee didn’t even pay half of the bills because he can’t keep a job; and she needed cash THAT morning, can she borrow $40? We met at her house after work because field trip first thing in the morning, etc. We both work late shifts, I showed up as soon as I changed and showered after my sweaty job.