This took place almost a year ago.
I dated K all throughout college. We were in love and were wonderful together. We had our differences but they were minor. During all our time together though, we never had sex, just oral. I wanted to stay a virgin until I was married. K knew my wishes and respected them and never forced himself on me. We came close a few times but never went all the way. I knew it was hard on him but that was my beliefs.
We broke up shortly after we graduated as we both found jobs in different cities. We’d talk every once and a while and he visited me if he was in my city. After a while I met another man that eventually became my husband. K also eventually married but is now divorced. We still would text but it would just be on birthdays or holidays.