I went through a divorce a few years ago and a major reason for it was the complete lack of sex from my wife. I’m not talking only every once in a while, but the last three years of our marriage included zero sexual contact. I remained faithful until near the end, but this story is about the first sexual encounter I had with a woman after years of nothing but masturbation. I have plenty of other stories from the years that followed if people are interested.
I was living in a new city and in my early 30s as my marriage was falling apart. I’m a fit caucasian guy and this was a city in Asia, so there was plenty all around to look at. I have never been good at meeting women in bars or anything like that, so I started browsing local dating sites. (This was in the days just before Tinder.)
I was amazed at the number of responses I got and soon I was talking to a woman about 10 years older than me who was also going through a divorce and was clearly at least as horny as I was. We were soon sending very sexual messages back and forth a few times a day. And it was also quite clear that neither of us was looking for a relationship. We both just wanted to relieve some pent-up sexual tension.