This happened a couple years ago, when I was 23 and my boyfriend was 28. I’ve always had fun teasing and getting people riled up, and this night was no exception. I was at my boyfriend’s apartment (let’s call him Connor) and he was working late from home. This wasn’t super uncommon; he works in a high workload, high stress kind of job. Having to work late is one of the downsides, but one of the upsides is definitely the take charge personality type that kind of job attracts. Although he’s usually super sweet with me, he’s got a much more dominant, demanding side that I like to try to bring out. And as he was working away at his desk, the only thing I could think about was how fun it would be to see how badly I could distract him, how horny I could manage to make him as he tried to focus.