Not sure how truly wild this is, and maybe it was a bit fucked up, but it was extremely hot in the moment and I still think about it to this day, getting instantly turned on.
It all started messaging a group of friends on Facebook about getting a party planned, reaching out to set some details, who brings what, etc. As I was connecting with people I ended up needing to coordinate with my wife’s best friend (Sidney) and we started messaging directly. After we got the party details set aside, we ended up chatting about random stuff, kids, etc. Eventually we started just talking about life, she mentioned some things about being bored at home, her husband always working, and she opened up a bit. I didn’t think much of it at first, but just for fun I mentioned that I had been shopping for lingerie (for wife) and didn’t know what I was doing. She responded politely at first, but then said something along the lines of “(my hubby) never buys me anything like that anymore…”. So I thought, what the hell, and asked her if she wanted to help me and just give me some general advice.