I don’t know if my wife and I count as “swingers”. We’re not in an open relationship, but we do play with a couple other couples, notably a close couple friend who live nearby. It’s a weird situation because we hang out often, and usually its totally platonic, just hanging out, playing party games, and snacking.
A few weeks ago the four of us decided to go on a weekend trip to a city about 150 miles away. We’d all had cabin fever over winter so we figured a quick change of scenery was a good idea. On top of that, I think everyone had in mind the implications of a weekend away with just the four of us.
After the long drive, we checked into the hotel around 7pm and got two adjacent rooms, each with a queen sized bed and couch. The rooms had one of those doors that locks both ways between rooms, so you can open it up and connect the rooms, which is what we did. After we all had a chance to relax a bit and change into comfortable clothes, we ordered pizza and hung out in my wife and my room, the tv on but all four of us chatting and not paying much attention.