I [M] have the most obvious and most difficult kink to find content, but my wife [F] is a master. She has a wonderful laugh.

I won’t bury the lead; I am turned on by laughter. Not humiliation, tickling, or anything like that; I am turned on by a woman belly laughing with her entire soul. N has a beautiful laugh, it brightens a room and I would recognize it anywhere. There is something so pure and sexy about seeing N doubled over on the bed, shaking from laughing so hard.

I feel like my laughter kink is the exact opposite of a lot of BDSM, which explores connection through exploring the dark aspects of our psyche. My laughter kink is about connection through the bright and cheerful. It can’t be faked, which is why it is ridiculously difficult to find in visual erotica of people connecting and laughing hard before they play. N and I have a word for this type of foreplay; we call it goofing. The best part of goofing comes from the natural evolution from connecting as friends into connecting as lovers.

[MF] TIFU by getting a little too into play with N

N (F31) and I (M36) had been busy most of the week. So when we got some time alone, the sparks were flying and clothes were coming off.

I should preface this by saying, that I’m a pretty big dude. I’m 6’4″ 370lbs and built like a gorilla. Even though I lean more sexually submissive, sometimes I like to take control and this was one of those times.

I was doing so good, I was holding N in my arms and I was grabbed a handful of the back of her hair in that way that you have enough hair that it doesn’t hurt and just sorta adds to the intensity. It was working, N was totally into it and so was I. It was animalistic and hot.

Sidenote: other dudes, when you know you’re doing well in the middle of the act, do you ever get excited about how well you are doing and get a little too excited mentally patting yourself on the back? Have you ever taken the step too far because you are so feeling like you can’t lose in that moment, you get too cocky?