Visited a light femdom for the first time [X-post /r/sex]

Hey folks,

I wasn’t sure whether to post his to /r/femdom or /r/cfnm, but those both seem to be porn subs, so I figured it was more appropriate here. I hope this doesn’t count as an “achievement” post, as I’m not trying to crow about this. I simply have literally no other outlet for sharing this and I figured it might be interesting to some folks.

Basics: I’m an early-30s guy. From time to time I trawl craigslist looking for sexual encounters. Light ones with guys (i.e., /r/jobuds), anything goes with women. Recently, I came across an interesting post advertising a clothed female, nude male (CFNM) encounter that had light domination elements. I don’t really have a clue about dom/sub, but I’m clearly more submissive in bed (I’ve always wanted the woman to tell me what to do, which feels sort of shameful as it seems expected that I’ll control the encounter). I thought this would be an interesting thing to explore.

I emailed the person and got an email back. She refused to send pictures, and said she did this out of a reputable business so it was a risk to her and she wouldn’t send identifying info. She detailed how the session would go, and we talked scheduling. We set up a time (today, which is about a week after we talked).