So I’m gonna estimate about ten years ago I was living in a major city that has a bunch of colleges. I had grown up in the suburbs of this city but now lived in the city itself and was single at the time. I was somewhere around 40 yo and had a good job and nice place but still enjoyed partying on occasion. I had a buddy of mine I grew up with who was married and who every 3-6 months would get a pass from his wife to go out and a lot of times he’d come in and sleep on my couch and we’d get some coke and go bar hopping or something. So anyways, this one occasion we had plans to do so but for whatever reason things fell apart and he couldn’t go out at the last minute. I don’t remember if he got in a fight with his wife or whatever but it was a no go.