This is a story about how one hookup experience helped me overcome a self-esteem problem caused by premature ejaculation. Lessons I learned for that night have lead to me having the best sex of my life. And spoiler alert, it wasn’t something crazy like getting pegged, I had just been an idiot and didn’t appreciate the importance of foreplay and lube. I hope this might help some other readers around here, but if you don’t want to hear the non-sexy side of the story you can skip to the ***********.
Backstory:
Through my late teens and early twenties I always thought I was a 2 pump chump and it put a serious strain on my mental health. I would finish way too fast, sometimes even on first insertion, and never lasted longer than maybe a minute or two at best. I tried the last longer condoms, numbing creams, squeeze the base techniques, and so forth but I never found anything that helped.