So I am 31 and was married right after college. In the last year in the pandemic it became obvious that my wife and I weren’t going to ignite any fire that had long been extinguished and finally got divorced. We have no kids and had been drifting for a few years so it was an amicable exit as we both realized it was best for us to just move on.
Being married so young I had talked with a few single friends and figured moving to a new city and getting back in shape was a great way to get things started. I found a nice apartment near a downtown setting around the corner from a few friends I could spend some time with and immediately got into a new routine. I was working from home during the day and would then head to the gym right after and get in a good workout before heading back to my place for the night.
My buddies were convinced I needed to go out and find a quick one night stand to help get back in the game but I was still trying to get in the routine of being back out and about and was trying to focus more on working and getting my mind right than getting ass from a stranger.