<From the Beard’s perspective, which is obvious very soon>
Sex parties were something my GF and I had talked about wanting to attend, for a bit, now. We read about them, listened to podcasts, and overall just tried to be as informed as possible before stepping into “that world” (as some people call it). It happened to where we had a perfect opportunity for one, recently. Not local, which we were OK with, and on a day we both had off. We decided to make a trip out of it, you know, see *other things* while we visited a farther away city. We wanted to keep our options open, we planned to attend the party first (it was going on all day/night) and see how we felt with the vibe. This left the option up to us to keep playing all day, take a break, or just leave if we weren’t diggin’ it. We felt it important to have a set of more *fluid* plans, for our first time. And it paid off.