This past summer I had a fling with a guy in my hometown (COVID safe – we were in each others bubbles!). He was a lot of my firsts sexually and was very patient and kind with me as I got comfortable with more things. Our texts were always filled with sexual tension and we would relentlessly tease each other. One of my favourites ways to tease him was to tell him I could beat him in a fight. I am 5 ft to his 6’1 and while I may be in good shape, he played football and rugby through high school and was still an active jiu jitsu athlete? Player? Lol clearly we did not discuss the nuances of his sports.
I digress, frequently during this flirtatious discussions about us in a fight he would tell me how easily he could pin me down and I would retort asking if he would get distracted if I started to strip. We had a truce and decided he could beat me but if I stripped I would win.