I’m sorry if this is the wrong subreddit, not sure where it would fall on the spectrum. I tried to post last night, but apparently I can’t post until the throwaway has existed for a day.
My wife and I wanted to do something special for Valentine’s Day. Both of us work during the week, so we decided to celebrate a couple of days early. We’d been talking for a while about switching roles; up until today, all that had ever been used on me was some of her dildos, and I knew that felt great, but I wanted to get fucked, and she wanted to feel what it was like fucking me. Therefore, we went to the sex shop yesterday and bought a Feeldoe slim; I saw the other ones available, and definitely thought they would be too big.
While we were on the way back from the store, we were talking about our upcoming experience. I said that I really wanted to get as submissive as possible, since up until now I’d always been the dominant one between us, and she’d been the submissive. She suggested we tie me up; I thought if my legs were tied it might make things difficult on our first time, but I gladly accepted having my hands tied to the bed. I also suggested she blindfold me; she’s done it a few times while dildoing me and jerking me off, and the sensory deprivation is amazing.