**I’ll link to my pic in the comments below, for anyone curious**
I learned to pass at a pretty early age. By the time I was out of college I had long, black hair that I could wear in a bun when I presented as a man or styel when I was all dressed up. Being petite and Asian certainly helped. I started frequenting fetish and alternative lifestyle clubs and bars as soon as I legally could. But all my early sexual encounters were with women. I typically dressed with 70s-Bowie flourish, but eventually came out of my shell and started spending most of time in drag.
Eventually I moved on from curious women to people more like me. Other cross dressers, androgynes, and even trasgenders. Anyone who liked to wear silk or satin or lace who liked the way I looked in a skirt. Masculine men didn’t interest me and neither did guys who were just looking to do something out of the ordinary. I always went for women or those who came from a similar point of mind.