Background: My wife and I are swingers and we’ve never had a FMF encounter. And I have a side girl I meet at lunch in fuck, sometimes in my own bed at home or in my truck, anywhere near my work,.. my wife has no idea about this girl because if she ever found out, she would loose her mind and that would end the swinging thing due to lack or of trust etc. I showed my wife a picture of sidechick at one point and she says..no..not my type and says no to playing.
So the other day it was my birthday so my wife and I arranged to have a overnight babysitter for the kids. Knowing this I set a plan into action, I would tell my side chick to go to the bar my wife and I would be at, and I wanted my side chick to approach my wife and I and start talking to us. Wife and I are at bar, side chick comes in, about 1.5 hous later approached the bar trying to get a drink, small talk begins to happen,. A few minutes go by..i offer her my stool to sit on, she does. We small talk blah blah, I mention we’re going to a strip club after this, side chick never has been to a strip club,.. I encourage her to go and invite her, she says sure!