Author: beardhands

This has been going on for a few years, but it happened again this week so I thought I’d write about it.

Every once in a while, maybe once or twice a year, my partner and I both go to bed like normal, with both of us sleeping either naked or in underwear, with me cuddling her from behind. After a while I kind of come to in the middle of heavy making out and getting ready for sex. I’ve had some instances of light sleep walking before, where I get out of bed, walk out the door of my bedroom, then come to and get back into bed. The first time it happened with my partner, I was on top of her, kissing her passionately and just starting to slide in and out of her. I stopped for a second as I realized what was happening, but she was wide awake underneath me and urged me to keep going. She asked about the sudden pause after and I told her I had basically been asleep up until that moment. She thought it was funny and confirmed that she actually really enjoyed it, and not to worry about it. Read more »

A few years ago, I was on a dating spree and started seeing Zaday. She was a few years younger and finishing school, and had a big inviting smile and eyes. She was shy at first, but we always had great chemistry, talking for hours, and she quickly opened up and we started fooling around after a few dates.

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From the beginning it always had an expiry; Zaday had a plane ticket to go backpacking around India when she finished school, and I was planning to do some travelling of my own. Neither of us addressed it directly, but we both knew it would have to end.

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A week before her flight, Zaday invited me over for dinner at her house. She’d always come over to my place because she had room mates, but they’d already moved out, and she had the place to herself. When I arrived she was wearing a strapless sundress and cooking up a pot of pasta. She was about a foot shorter than me, with a skinny build and big green eyes and I kissed her as she greeted me at the door. We had dinner together and chatted, then fooled around for a bit on the couch, then in her bed. Read more »

This is a few years back. I got out of a bad relationship and moved in with a few friends. The house ended up being a lot of fun, and we put in a hot tub in the backyard with our landlord’s blessing. We got in the habit of going out there late at night and inviting friends over to join us. I had only started dating a little, seeing a friend on and off, but hadn’t been with anyone since the breakup.

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A few months after the hot tub was up and running I had a joint birthday party with my housemate. It was the middle of winter, but we decided to throw a beach themed party and had a ton of friends over with dancing, lasers, and a smoke machine. When things got late and the crowd thinned out, we decided to go out hot tubbing. There were maybe 8 or 9 of us left and we all hung around chatting in the tub. Ainsley, a friend of mine through some sports, had stuck around. She didn’t bring a bathing suit, so she just jumped in the tub in a bra and underwear. She was a few years younger than me, and was kind of a kid-sister type, but I had also heard through friends that she was always on the look out for someone new to fool around with. I didn’t think much of it since we were friends and the girl I’d been on and off dating was a friend of hers. She was sitting net to me in the tub and we joked about how her friend was missing out. Read more »

To read about an earlier encounter I had with this girl, check out my earlier story [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/ihblyp/a_cashier_f_23_at_a_kenyan_hardware_store_gave_me/). This story stands on its own without having read that one, so feel free to start here if you’d like.

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I lived in Kenya for a few months after finishing school and ended up helping out with a community center being built in the area I was living in. While travelling to buy supplies, a cute clerk named Rosie, who worked at the hardware store, kept giving me eyes, eventually gave me her number, and I ended up spending the night at her place. I had to leave the next day, but I promised to stay in touch.

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Back in the village I was living in, the American volunteer I was living with encouraged me to keep in touch with her and enjoy some down time on the weekends. I gave her a call and she said she was surprised to hear from me. “I didn’t know if I’d ever hear your voice again.” But she was glad I’d called and was eager to meet up again. “Maybe I’ll come visit the village you’re living in?” I was living in a fairly remote area, sleeping in a small safari tent, and the community I was in was fairly conservative Christian, so I didn’t know how they’d react to having someone coming to sleep with me and fool around for the weekend, so I offered to come visit her in the city instead and packed my bags. Read more »

My partner and I have talked about kids for a long time, and now that we’re both settled down with jobs and location, she wanted to get her IUD removed so that her body could start adjusting to get pregnant. We talked about timelines and agreed that in the next year it would probably be a good time to start having kids. She wanted to start trying right away, once it was removed, but I wasn’t sure yet. I want to have kids with her, but I’ve spent so long being told to not get someone pregnant that it seemed like a big step, even though I was ready. Read more »