Before my wife and I found each other and started having our own adventures, I spent a few years exploring the swinger scene as a single guy in my early 30s. This was in the heyday of Craigslist personals, and I had some great luck finding folks to play with. One of the biggest turn-ons for me was the anonymity of it all. There was nothing quite like meeting someone for the explicit purpose of sex, knowing that within a few minutes the clothes would all be off and you’d be deep inside this person that you’d literally just met. It focuses the mind on the urgency of fucking…no thoughts about relationships, consequences, personality…all that mattered was the act.
Most of my hookups during this period were with hotwife/cuckold couples that were looking [for a guy to come in, act the role they wanted, and hit the road](https://www.reddit.com/r/Cuckold/comments/yma1l4/dominating_and_creampieing_a_submissive_hotwife/), which suited what I was looking for perfectly. I did have a few experiences with single women, however, and one really still stands out to this day. She was a short, curvy MILF named Tina, in her early 40s, divorced, with a teenage son who she shared custody of (so she often had her house to herself). I met her on a swinger personals site (as opposed to my usual haunt of Craigslist). Her profile pictures were some boudoir shots and they were absolutely stunning…she had red hair, huge (but firm) breasts, and a big curvy ass that I just needed to see her throwing back on my cock.