Most of my cheating experiences were one night stands, women I met on business trips and only saw one time. I have had a few affair partners though. This is the story of one of my local affair partners.
We met on the app Whisper, which truly is a horrible app for many reasons, but it does sometimes work for meeting people. She posted a completely innocent message in the local feed, and I responded. Honestly I don’t even remember what she posted, or how I responded, but we had a very normal non-sexual conversation. She even remarked about how it was unusual for a conversation to keep going without it getting sexual. We had talked about how she was engaged, how I was married, how I was an old man to her (I was 35, she was 23), work, school, my kids, and so on.
We kept chatting, now via Kik, for a few weeks. It took us a while, but we finally exchanged pictures, and she was stunning. A beautiful latina woman, smooth skin, eyes that penetrated your soul. I’m not bad I suppose, but she was a step above my league for sure. She didn’t seem to feel that way though, she got flirty after exchanging pictures. Still, neither of us even suggested anything out of bounds. Yet.