This is a throwaway account. I’ve never posted on here and may never again but I can’t stop thinking about this and needed to tell someone.
This happened a few months ago.
My wife (alias Sam, 38F) and I have been together a long time. We’re in our 30’s, have kids, and our sex life has generally slowed down a lot. When we do hook up it’s typically the same stuff… the same few positions, make each other cum as quickly as possible, go to sleep. We’re both fit and healthy and up for it but life gets in the way.
We also have mismatched libidos. Mine (38M) is sky high, and I’d try almost anything once. I’m also super turned on by anal play, even though I’ve had limited experience with it. Of course we always hear about how guys are obsessed with anal because they watch too much porn and it normalizes it, but it’s more than that for me – I just think anal is really hot, and can feel really really good. And I put my money where my ass is – I’ve experimented on myself plenty and enjoy it quite a lot.