I used to frequent bdsm websites and connected with a girl who was a sophomore in college at the time. She was a giggly half Korean and half white girl. I have this weird theory that that combination is the kinkiest (anecdotally). She was in her early 20s and we talked for a bit about her kinks. On the site, you can list out your kinks under “things you’re into” and “things you’re interested in trying”. Degradation was listed under her interests and so was rimming.
We talked for about a week, getting to know each other before meeting up. We actually met at a Barnes and Noble during her lunch break. She was so nervous and stumbled over her words. It was a quick meeting just to make sure we looked like our pictures and weren’t serial killers etc. She was about 5’4 and fortunately looked just like her pics. Glowing skin and rosy cheeks.