This happened this past summer. My husband (M) and I (F) have an open relationship and while we have the ability to do whatever we want, we keep each other in the know on our activities. This isn’t one of those times. We live in a town where we run into the same people over and over. It’s tough to keep a low profile if you’re out and about. One night, my husband and I went to a local bar. They have live music and an outdoor patio that a lot of locals enjoy. On this particular evening, we entered the bar and ordered drinks like every other night we’ve visited. Across the room, I noticed an attractive man making eye contact with me. I’m not usually one to notice things like this, but he looked very nice. His hair was nicely styled, he dressed to impress, his eyes were alluring and piercing me directly to my soul. He had a gorgeous woman sitting with him, a curvy buxom blonde that my husband pointed out as soon as he grabbed our drinks.