I 31 [M] had a string of Tinder hookups with late 30 [F]’s

This was about 3 years ago when I was 28 and on Tinder everyday. That summer, I never hit it off with any girls who were my age on the dating apps. I was matching with a few women in their late 30’s and holding conversations long enough to see where they went. The first one was a Turkish woman in town for the summer for work. While we were chatting, she brought up that I was too young to have a relationship with her but she thought I was “cute” (I look a bit young for my age). She was pretty direct and asked if I was ok with being fwb or have a fling. Naturally I said of course and we set a date to meet up at her place.

I [M] ended up sleeping with my [M] friend’s friend[F] in his parent’s house

This was a few years back, I was about 26 and going to a lot of EDM/techno/house club nights and shows. A buddy of mine shared similar music tastes and we’d go about once a month. In October, we decided to see Markus Schulz at a local club and my friend [M] met a girl at a music festival that past summer who also really wanted to go to that show.

She was a very fit, tanned, asian girl who was a few years older than us but you couldn’t tell, we’ll call her Lily. I wasn’t sure if my buddy and her were just friends or seeing each other at that point. We predrank at my friends house and made our way to the club. It was a pretty packed show so we didn’t have too much room to move around. While I was grooving away to the beats, Lily started to grind up against me – at first I thought it was just because it was so packed but she kept at it for long enough that I started to get a little hard. She turned around and told me that I’m cute and gave me a kiss. Nothing else really happened between me and her for the rest of the show.