Hi all, sorry this post is so damn long, but I think this is important context for all future stories. Mostly because my wife has steadfastly refused to talk about certain aspects of her past with me. The reason for this is pretty straightforward, and a bit of a story itself. Basically, she used to be (before we met) a little heavy. Then, at around age 24, she did everything she could to get into great shape and turn herself into a total smokeshow. When we met, she was about 90% done with her transformation and looking really good. She somehow managed to maintain big tits on a now almost stick skinny frame (sadly no ass though). The result of this, though, is that she was now starting to get a ton of attention she had never really gotten before. After years of being very down on her self image, all of the attention from “hot” guys started to really get to her. We started dating basically as soon as we met. For about 6 months things were great. After that, however, she started to repeatedly give in to temptation, into all of the new attention she was getting, and she ended up cheating on me a number of times. We continued to date for a long while; however, her giving into temptation/manicness/general bad behavior was only increasing. She was drinking a ton and just generally making bad decisions. After about 2 years of dating, I found out about an affair she had been carrying on with someone who, at the time, I had considered one of my closest friends. At about the same time we had moved in together (the moving in together is what had precipitated the guy to finally come clean, because I guess he thought he loved her or something). At almost the exact same time, we found out she was pregnant. After a tumultuous several months, we had a paternity test and found out the baby was mine. We resolved to stay together, and there was an incredible change in her behavior. Getting pregnant had matured her immensely almost instantaneously. We worked hard at our relationship to get to a trusting, loving place. She quickly revealed herself to be an incredible mother and a devoted partner. On our son’s first birthday I proposed, a year later we were married. She has been nothing but good to me and has been an amazing partner.