Disclaimer 1: Long Post
Disclaimer 2: English is not my native language so I will try to do my best
At the time, I was in a relationship with my ex for 3 years who I met online, at the beginning it was great but at the end it was more and more frustrating, things weren’t like it was before, we argued a lot, sex was not great, we didn’t know if we still had feelings, but it was our first long relationship so neither do I or my ex had the courage to talk about it or mostly to call it quit.
For my part the problem was mostly sexual, I had two strong fetishes that I was kind of ashamed of… The first one was a slipper fetish; I was totally aroused when a girl was wearing a specific pair of slippers (ballerina slipper socks style) and it was a very strong fetish.
The second one which is more original was seeing a girl spearfishing/freediving, kind of a mermaid fetish, the idea of a woman holding her breath underwater and not see her from the surface or from the shore for more than a minute and wearing all the gear was a huge turn on for me