And now back to your regularly scheduled program…Sort of. [m+f]

If you want the backstory to this episode check my post history but buckle up first, it’s a long and bumpy ride…

When we last spoke Wally World was still closed for renovations. There were a few sympathy blowjobs – I call them that but really they were her way of taking out her sexual frustrations on me mostly. She would tease and torture me, ruin a lot of my orgasms, try to peg me, and just generally assert all the power over me that she could in the moment – all in good fun of course. Furthermore, anal is pretty much out of the question. We’ve tried anal in the past and neither of us really care for it. To me it puts pressure on my unit in all the wrong places and doesn’t feel all that good and she doesn’t really get off on it either other than enjoying the naughty or taboo aspect of it so we really don’t engage in it at all.

Down but not out… (m+f, caution: real life love and general weirdness)

I’m back, see sorry and make hay to get up to speed.

This story isn’t really about sex. In fact, it’s not about sex at all. It’s about everything else but sex. It’s about the time after the most recent round of surgery (see i'll be there… for another example) Ah, fuck it, there’s a little sex in here. This is r/gonewildstories after all…

The best part of the last few weeks has been not thinking about sex. As great as it is, at times sex has been a minor stressor in our lives, not in a terrible way mind you but just in the usual ways – we’re not doing it enough, we’re doing it too much, you want me to put that pez dispenser where? So short breaks in our sex lives – the birth of our children, surgeries, or binge watching SOA have always had a silver lining. It usually resets us and puts us right back on track.

I’ll be there for you [m+f]

It’s been a long year. Since last we spoke (see Sorry and Gotta make hay for examples) and a lot has changed. Medical issues, biopsies, tears, hugs, shit. Not to go all Debbie Downer on your collective asses womp womp … This is /r/Gonewildstories afterall… Life goes on and we do the best we can.

It’s times like these that make you realize, one way or the other, what sort of relationship you have. I would say ours is just great.

When we first found out she was sick it was quite a shock. We had been busy raising our young boys, working, and squeezing in as much fun times as we could. You never expect something like this, especially in your 30’s, which is probably why it was so devastating. There was an awful lot of soul searching and talking that took place during all this. Inexplicably this whole thing managed to bond us even more rather than tear us apart.