Background: I am 23, and just the other night I lost my virginity. I know, it sounds insane that someone my age (especially a girl who went to a large state school with a drinking reputation) would still be a virgin. I don’t really have a big explanation except that I never really had a good, non-sketchy opportunity. I don’t do commitment, and I don’t like douchebags, so my options were slim.
I graduated from the aforementioned university this past May and just recently went back up for a big football weekend. On Friday night I went out with some friends (started at a house party where I made the horrible mistake of drinking a four loko) had a few more beers, went to a bar, drank more and danced and sang, then went to get the key to my friends apartment I was staying at from her work. She works at a bar, so when I showed up to get the key, one of her coworkers that I had met before and had just gotten off of work invited me in to grab one more drink with him. A few shots later…he’s asking if I wanted to go and smoke at his place. For background: I don’t smoke too often, but with job searching after college I had to quit for a while. I have a job now, AND I was pretty drunk so I was SO in.