My wife and I have been married for almost 7 years. We have a good sex life, but it’s nothing extra kinky. I’m usually the one to push for new and different things and we’ve expanded our activities and toy collection over the years. First a small vibrator, then a small dildo, cock rings, etc. One egg I’ve never been able to crack with her is anal. It’s been the forbidden forest that’s always been off limits…until about two years ago.
She finally became comfortable with me lightly rubbing her asshole with my thumb during doggy or reverse cowgirl but I think she was mostly just ignoring me so I wouldn’t see any reaction. I tried this for awhile and got away with it, but the first time I pressed hard enough for the tip of my finger to enter her ass she immediately grabbed my wrist and pulled it away. Shot down.