My husband and I have a small guesthouse on our property which we rent out on short term websites. A few weeks ago we had a couple stay with us, around our age who invited us to share a bottle of wine with them. They seemed nice so we sat out on the patio and had a drink.
The conversation flowed, more wine was opened and the subject turned to marriage and then, not completely out of the blue, because I felt they were trying to get us to talk about sex, they asked us if we had ever been a a part of the “lifestyle”. I was pretty shocked because I have had a few chats about that with people here recently. I pretended not to know what they meant. My husband, genuinely I think, didn’t seem to know and asked them what that was. When they explained it was swinging and talked about the club they belonged to back home he seemed shocked.
It became very obvious they were inviting us to play with them. Honestly, I wasn’t tempted at all but perhaps for the wrong reasons. He was kind of jockish, too much into sports and had let us know he was conservative politically. She wasn’t that cute and a bit dumpy. Definitely not my husbands type at all.