That story happened with my ex I stayed 6 months with.
I (37M) met Sandra (36F) (names changed) on okCupid and we were hitting it off pretty well. I was waiting to get divorced for like 6 months or so (I was already separated). We were having casual conversations and also very specific hilarious convos. We began to heavily flirt and while there was no pure sexting, things began to get hot as we talked kinks, boundaries, and such.
The thing is, we were pretty far apart (1,5h drive) and as a single dad, with my kid there every 2 weeks (and with covid as it was in 2020), it was difficult to see each other.
On a Saturday evening, we were texting ,with sandra on WhatsApp as usual and covid restrictions were a bit lighter than it was 1 week ago. We were like “if only we could see each other, etc …” And then I told her : “then, why don’t we, today, right now?”. She told me that it would be great and to bring some beer at hers. She told me I could even crash for the night.