One of my FWBs, “Mark” is a tall, burly, masculine man who has a latent submissive side. We’ve been working on bringing it out, but it’s a slow process, especially as we don’t see each other all that often. When we do get together, we have some absolutely outstanding “switchy” sexual chemistry.
Mark and I were on a weekend trip and had spent the day out sightseeing before heading back to the hotel to relax. We had an hour or two before we needed to get ready for dinner, so he decided to take a quick nap while I got some reading done. Cuddled up on the bed, he asked if he could put his head in my lap to sleep, which I absolutely leapt to agree to. Gently stroking his head while he dozed felt so amazing, and seemed a step in the direction of him willingly relinquishing some control. An hour passed this way, and though I didn’t want it to end, I had to start thinking about getting ready.