I (32M) got my best friend (32F) pregnant behind the backs of her husband and my wife. [MF]

TLDR: My female best friend turned out to be my soulmate (if you believe in that) and we decided to have a baby together. She’s almost three months pregnant now.

Warning: This is very long and mostly just me gushing about my best friend and how stupidly in love we realized we are. Feels good to write it out.

We recently realized that we were basically soulmates and that we had been in love with each other since we were kids, but never told the other out of respect for each other. We’re both married to people we love and she already has one child and a life with a dog and her husband. I don’t have any kids with my wife but we have a lovely family with pets and a home.

So I’m going to call my best friend “Kris”. I’ll call myself “Aer”.