Author: adventurecdnwife

[F][32] My last 4 years as a hotwife ?☺️????

So I’ve posted all lot of a stories of my sexual exploration and evolution from the time I was 20 to when I started exploring the hotwife lifestyle. My stories have been mainly focused on specific experiences and I try and share as much details as possible because that seems to be appreciated but it also excites me to share. ???
But a lot of people have asked different questions about the broader details of my sex life so I’ll try to address that and where I am now in my sexual evolution.

The one thing I can say is that becoming a hotwife has been the most amazing part of my evolution and the lifestyle I categorize myself as being in currently. During the time my husband and I predominately explored the swinger lifestyle (which we still do) my experiences with guys were not many. I only slept with 3 new men during that time. My husband connected with the wives more than I did with the husbands. But he also discovered becoming a bull in some hotwife scenarios with other couples. Because of that he connected with at least 12-15 other women, which is why we began dabbling in my exploration of the hotwife lifestyle myself. Read more »

[F][32] My first hotwife experience with a hung military man…. ???‍♀️???

I just want to start off by stating that all my main stories so far are past experiences. I’ve shared a few present occurrences but mainly I’ve slowly described my sexual evolution over the course of quite a few stories so far. I’ve written about my sexual exploration in my 20’s, my infatuation with cheating, discovering my inner slut, time my husband and I opened up to a more hedonistic way of embracing sex and eventually our time spent exploring the swinging lifestyle. And now this story is my first real hotwife experience. It was the start of my favourite phase in my sexual evolution, and the phase I still remain in today. It happened about 4 years ago…… ??

My husband started encouraging me to give being a hotwife a try and I seriously
started looking for the right candidate. I was not finding anyone I was thrilled about through lifestyle searches and various other online searches were even worse. I didn’t want an experienced bull. I just wanted a hot single guy to fuck that would be thrilled to fuck a hot married hotwife. Read more »

[F][32] The lifestyle led to me wanting to be a hotwife ???‍♀️?????

Evan and I spent a long time partying with our new group of friends. The lifestyle was a way of life for us. When we were overseas we had our regular life and our naughty life. They were kept separate. But in California the lifestyle was it. It was our lives. Work was work. But personal lives, that was lifestyle lead.

We travelled with lifestyle friends, partied, hiked, camped, dinner parties….. and the most amazing part about it all is sex was always on the table. I was picky with the men. Attraction was not everything. I needed a deeper connection. And because of that I only connected with three of the guys in the group. Evan connected with most of the wives. He was also often invited as a third for mfm threesomes and began acting as the bull in a few of those relationships. Him being a bull was getting really hot for me too so he also actively became a bull for a few other hotwives outside our inner circle. Read more »

[F][32] Our swinging lifestyle evolves ?????‍♀️???????. 2 of 2

Part 2 of 2. Swinging party with new friends

After our fun afternoon swapping with Chris and Jill the day sort of got away from us. We just hung out, drank, talked, made out with various other couples at the party. We got to know most of everyone there and we definitely were comfortable with pretty much everyone. Our friends Chris and Jill were close friends with everyone so we didn’t feel like we were surrounded by strangers. There were 7 or 8 other couples there, and I made out with 3 or 4 of the other wives throughout the evening, almost all the husbands lol, and Evan had gotten his cock sucked by at least 2 of the wives. Like me they absolutely were infatuated with how his big cock feels in your mouth. He was the biggest guy at this party and for some of the women this was a highlight. Read more »

[F][32] Our swinging lifestyle became amazing. ???‍♀️?????? 1 of 2

This is a 1 of 2 part story.

Evan and I continued to be quite active in the lifestyle and having sex with the Européen VP of the company I worked for and his wife.
We really embraced our adventures and it became a leading part of our lives. We even started a blog on tumblr at the time. We were actively sharing our experiences, our adventures, our own narrative of the lifestyle, advice and tons of discreet pics and videos. We were loving sharing, chatting with couples and other people interested or involved in the lifestyle and kept meeting new amazing people.

In 2014 he proposed and 2015 we were married. He still had a professional life in New Zealand and I was in Denmark. We did spend most of our time together but we wanted to be together full time. Own our own house…. but there was nothing for him in Denmark and nothing for me in New Zealand. Evan’s father was from New Zealand but his mother was American so he had dual citizenship. So he managed to find a job states side and I requested a transfer. We ended up moving to California and we started our new life. We bought a nice place, settled in, explored the state, joined some swinger websites, and our life in the lifestyle exploded. Read more »

[F][32] First full swap ????‍♀️???

Our first swinger party led to a lot more experiences for us. We got invited to more and we enjoyed attending as many as we could but also really enjoyed hitting the clubs. Evan was still back and forth to New Zealand so weeks together always involved us making lots of plans to let loose and get crazy.

I was really embracing my bisexual side and exploring more and more with women, and I was absolutely loving watching Evan fuck other hot women. My connection to other men in the lifestyle just was not happening though. Which is why a lot of our experiences with couples involved Evan fucking the wife, and me having some wild fun with her too, but there was seldom any interaction between the husband and I. All the experiences were fun and hot and the husbands were always understanding of the lack of attraction. I was still getting fucked by Evan. Exploring another beautiful woman with my hands and tongue. And the couples were always ok with just the wife fucking Evan. Read more »

[F][32] My first swinger party ??

After our first experience at a swinger club Evan and I really started to explore that lifestyle a lot more. The energy, the eroticism, letting go of all inhibitions really made us feel like we wanted more. He and I were both extremely sexual, totally open, and we wanted to explore more in our sexuality. We talked a lot about it. We had no real limits. We were of the mind set that we would let the energy and circumstances lead the adventure and just let ourselves go in the moments.

For the next 6 months we went out regularly to swingers clubs, spas, events, and we were meeting great people and making great friends. We were maintaining our distant approach to having sex with others. Had not actually swapped with anyone. But loved being there. Exploring our own sexuality together. Giving anyone that wanted to watch us an amazing show. But the extent of our involvement with others was limited to me and the other woman kissing, lightly touching each other. It was limited. But it was actually extremely rewarding and satisfied Evan and I. Every experience led to more amazing sex between each other and left us wanting more. But we just had not connected with the right couple For us yet. Read more »

[F][32]. My first time at a swingers club. ??

Evan and I got quite serious quite fast. Living in different countries we had some stuff to consider if we wanted to pursue this relationship. So he headed back to sort out some stuff in New Zealand for a few weeks after our adventure in Amsterdam and we kept talking on the phone, Skype, texting…… and exploring our approach to looking into the swinging lifestyle.

We Joined some swinger sites all over Europe and started exploring what was out there. The day he came back we had planned to hit a swingers Club that same night. We didn’t know what to expect but we were both as horny as we had ever been and open to absolutely anything.

It was a hot club with on site premises where you can have sex which is exactly what we wanted. I dressed up with my hottest and riskiest outfit. But I love elegance. So I had my tallest heels on, which were nude Louboutins. They always make me feel so hot. I had on a tight extremely short skirt that went from belly button to my pussy. Most of the time it would not even cover it. My ass spilled out the bottom of it and I loved how I looked and felt. Of course I left the panties home. I had on a brallette which was elegant but the exposure was so sexy. My hair was down and wavy. Still blond at the time. Great jewelry and i smelled amazing. Read more »

[F]32. How we started thinking about swinging. ???

Evan spent 3 weeks with me in Copenhagen before heading back to New Zealand for a bit. In that time span we had an amazing time. We connected in a way much beyond our sexuality. Our relationship was different than anything I had experienced and it was growing stronger every day.

Our sexual exploits however never slowed down. We loved fucking just about everywhere. In those three weeks we traveled a few places in Europe and hot luxurious spas. Fucked on hotel balconies. I’d rode him more than once in the back of a taxi on the way home after a night out. We were very hedonistic by nature together and enjoying being more and more of exhibitionists. We took tons of pics of our sexual adventures, and videos and were always looking for more. Read more »

[F]32. Met my husband, fucked like pornstars. ????

I made some good friends in Copenhagen. Mostly other expats working growing their careers and going wherever the next opportunity took them. One of my closest friends was Aria. She was a cute and tiny Asian girl born in Tokyo but had grown up in Singapore.

For my 24th birthday she recommended we take a trip there. Spend a few days of her showing me around and then escape for a true holiday to Fiji. I knew nothing of these places but she described them as magical so I was all for it. I needed a vacation anyway.
She was right. I loved Singapore. She had many friends and we spent lots of nights just bouncing from restaurants to bars to patios and clubs. I truly enjoyed it.

Then off to Fiji. It was magical. We spend our first few days at the beach in tiny bikinis enjoying tropical drinks and misbehaving as much as possible. I’d rarely wear anything more than a thong or gstring bikini bottom and tops just small enough to cover the essentials. I loved showing off my body. I’ve always been sort of an exhibitionist. We both hooked up our first night there with some hot guys so to me this had everything I needed in a vacation. We then hung out by the pool after a few days and found it way easier to meet people and make friends. That’s where I met the man I’d end up marrying. His name was Evan. Read more »