26 [FM] My boyfriend stood me up on our anniversary and I ended up sleeping with his roommate

This happened awhile ago so I’ve had some time to sit with it and don’t really regret it despite the fact it was cheating, even if the relationship was heading towards a break up either way. I just want to acknowledge the fact that cheating is definitely wrong and I’m not trying to romanticize it up front.

But getting to it I had been seeing this guy for awhile and occasionally it was long distance but he also started spending more time working and missing things that were important to me. One such time was an anniversary, I figured I could excuse some of this and try and get us back on track with a surprise for this. We had planned to meet at his place a bit later in the evening but I decided to get to his place early to surprise him. I did up my makeup which I usually don’t do a lot of, got a new lingerie piece (it was a green bodysuit with black lace accents), and got some nice wine. I get to his apartment and wait in his room after getting the lighting right.

[FM] Finding a much needed release with the mechanic in a small rural town

This was back when I was younger (22) working in a small rural town. Living there was nice due to the abundance of nature but it was near impossible to meet people and date/hook up due to a few factors so I was getting to a point of lowered standards.

There was a mechanic in the town that I would end up going to a lot with our work vehicles having lots of issues from driving around all the time. He was mid/late 30s, a vet, pretty keep to himself and conservative. A typical outfit would be jeans and plaid or coveralls, and he was in good shape, pretty tall/big and bearded. Overall pretty different from very liberal, environment loving, talkative and petite me. At first I wouldn’t get much out of him as I waited on some work or passing through but eventually he gave in and chatted with me, mostly about fishing or hunting. Occasionally he’d complain about things or tell me some of his views then apologize saying I probably disagreed.

26 [F] Don’t be an exhibitionist in a small rural town…

In a moment of excitement I decided to answer the door for my late night food delivery in just my panties (purple lacy pattern with some black around the waistband including a bow). I live in a smallish town which is not great for dating.

Well anyways the delivery driver was a guy I knew and someone who has hit on me in the past. I was probably beet red as I took it from him and he checked me out. The worst part is he wished me a good night by name taking in all my tan lines and goosebumps

So I feel like everyone is going to hear about this drunken mistake ๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ™ˆ

Fuck… More wine please ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ™ˆ

I [F] lost a bet to the college students I supervised and had to wear a bikini top for them while doing field work for a week

For several years I worked for an organization that did Environment/wildlife research, basically I was a field lead which means I was out doing field work all day supervising students. Usually these college students were guys around my age range (20 at the youngest) and didn’t appreciate being told what to do by a little 5’3″ gal. For reference I usually was leading two students at a time

Most of the time it was hard to get them to listen and follow my instructions, instead they found ways to mess with me and my authority. Eventually it just became normal and playing around – usually at my expense – made the days a little easier. My group usually performed one of if not the best while other groups had constant conflicts and I think it was because I let them get away with so much inappropriate stuff.

26 [F] I used to supervise college students doing field work and sometimes I miss how they guys would disrespect me

For several years I worked for an organization that did Environment/wildlife research, basically I was a field lead which means I was out doing field work all day supervising students. Usually these college students were guys around my age range (20 at the youngest) and didn’t appreciate being told what to do by a little 5’3″ gal. For reference I usually was leading two students at a time

This lead to all kinds of situations where they wouldn’t listen to me, didn’t take me seriously, ganged up on me, and generally didn’t respect me at first. As a result they would do all kinds of inappropriate stuff like throw things down my top when I was distracted, slap my ass when I was bending over, spraying me with water bottles, picking me up and rough housing. I just started putting up with it, working long days in a hot environment drains your energy enough and constantly arguing or trying to get them to behave on top of that was extra exhausting.

Eventually it just became normal and playing around – usually at my expense – made the days a little easier. My group usually performed one of if not the best while other groups had constant conflicts and I think it was because I let them get away with so much inappropriate shit.

26 [FMM] I went to a Magic the Gathering event for attention and a self-esteem boost but ended up getting a lot more

Recently I’ve been feeling pretty isolated and needed a self-esteem boost so I (26F) decided to go somewhere I’d get a lot of attention. I put on some yoga pants, a tank crop top that shows off a fair amount of cleavage without a bra, and a plaid flannel button up over that. Then I went to my local game stores Magic the gathering draft. I used to play a bit with some friends so I have the basics down but by no means am I a regular.

When I got there I immediately got a lot of looks/stares and it wasn’t long before the shop employees and other guys were talking to me trying to get my attention. It was a lot but I definitely felt like I was special in the moment. Eventually it started after making your deck and I was matched with a pretty awkward guy who was clearly a bit unsure what to say. Deciding to be a bit of a tease I did a lot of leaning forward giving him a good view, crossing my arms, and getting close to him. He was polite enough to not constantly be staring but I did see him take a glance at my chest quite a few times. Probably the main reason I won the first round.

[F] I got punished for losing a beer pong tournament at a house party in uni and I enjoyed it

So this story happened back while I was in university, recently was reminded of it when I was chatting with a friend.

My friend invited me to a house party, for background she was much more outgoing and had her own group of friends that were more Alt and open than a lot of the group’s I had hanging out with. Anyways at the part they were going to do a beer pong tournament so I was excited for that as I was enjoying it a lot at other parties. Skipping ahead to the night of we arrived and it was pretty chill, people hanging out, listening to music that wasn’t quite my style, drinking and getting high. My friend knew a lot of people there but I only recognized a few, but they got around to making a tournament bracket for the beer pong. They even had a funny trophy (that’s kind of when I realized I was probably not going to do so well haha).

25 [F] Slight teasing during some zoom calls

Over the past months I’ve been having zoom meetings with a guy who is representing a government group that is providing funding for one of the projects the organization I work for is doing. Overall pretty boring stuff, I also slightly hate online meetings and working from home at this point

Anyways he’s a pretty handsome guy so I decided just for kicks I would try and do something flirty on our calls. i.e getting up to refill my coffee to let him check out my ass in my pj shorts or yoga pants and generally wearing more revealing stuff then you would expect at a meeting.

This week I decided to wear a button up plaid flannel with quite a few buttons undone. In a normal position it showed off some cleavage but when I motioned with my arms the shirt opened up showing off quite a bit of chest and some of my bra.

He didn’t say anything during but he did message me on instagram today saying it’s been great hearing about our project and that it would be nice to meet up sometime. So think I’m going to take him up on the offer, may bring in some more funding haha