When [M]y Wi[F]e is away, I go on dating sites and play….

I know! Truly I do, it’s bad form to cheat! Yet sex, or the lack thereof has been an issue for a few years now and I find myself unable to stop myself any longer. I love her, but I need to get off from time to time.

So, I’ve found myself using online dating sites to flirt and chat with girls.

At this point I should probably add that I’m an Irishman in his 50’s from Ireland, but I keep myself in shape, and as it turns out….younger girls seem to like a silver fox. Or at least some do. Many others don’t….

My wife has found herself spending a lot of time with family recently, looking after them, and of course I help out too, but there’s days when I’m left alone, and my teenage daughter’s spend their time in their rooms on their phones. That means I’ve had time to set up a profile and start messaging girls.

In the interests of fairness, I’m up front with them, and some understand, and others don’t approve. but I’ve had a bit of fun messaging with a few women ranging from early 20’s up to around my own age.

Sleeping with [M]y [Former] Student!

So I’m a teacher, and yes sometimes we think about our students, and sometimes our students think about us. This happened about 20 years ago when I was 35, and she was most certainly over 18.

Over the years there are students that stand out from the rest, for better or worse. Usually for the worse. Yet every so often there’s a student who you just click with, not necessarily on a sexual level but there’s chemistry, intelligence and a maturity that allows you to click. Alison was one of those students. Smart, cute and was confident enough to chat with me and see past the disciplinarian who only gave out homework.

I teach in a private school, so class sizes are smaller, and everyone has more time to get to know everyone. A relaxed environment would describe the school best.

20 years ago I wasn’t married. Didn’t have kids. 30 years ago I taught Alison, and was a new teacher who landed on his feet in a good school. There isn’t much to say about when we both were in school apart from there being a friendliness, and the age gap wasn’t huge. 10 years or so? There was friendly flirting but nothing sordid. Those details are coming right up.