Getting my wife to become more vocal during sex has been one of the greatest things to happen to our relationship. I’ve slowly been getting her to open up more and more about her sex life before we were married and some of the things I’ve learned have been absolutely mind blowing. This is one of them.
It started when I had to run errands on a side of town we usually don’t have a need to visit. My wife happened to grow up on that side of town and the errand I ran was next to the high school she graduated from. I’m down the street from school and I get a text from my wife that says “let me know when you’re by the school.” I get there a little early so I pull up across the street and tell her I’m there. She text me “drive around the baseball field and the football field area and I’ll tell you a secret about it”. I keep driving and I slow down to get a look at the baseball field which is actually pretty far from the main buildings and it has entrances to the field coming from the streets around, I’m guessing for easier access to the students to go to and from school. I finish running my errands and get home but the day goes by without us really talking about it until later that night.