Quite a few years back in my early twenty’s this happened, and approaching my thirties I decided to vent about this. We all have that one family member who is the black sheep or is just cool as hell, well that is my cousin James. He’s been in and out the joint, has a drinking habit, and literally picks up women like no other..Being that he is twice my age he has schooled me to a lot and i saw a lot being around him (one time we were randomly leaving a parking lot and he gets this woman’s number, later that night he was in the hotel room pounding her life away). Fast Forward he is staying with another relative on probation and his curfew just gotten lifted.At the time there was a popular social media site called “Tagged” that was Tinder before Tinder (along the lines of Myspace) James would always spend his free time on. I mean he was so heavy into the site. One winter night because i would occasionally stay with him to keep him company and often time i wanted to see some scary stuff, he tells me about this girl in the next state over who he has been chatting with for a while. Night after night they have phone conversations like they’re high schoolers and i thought it was silly, but James is a different caliber. Aint no fun if the homies cant have none. Every phone call he would mention he was with me and it would freak me out, being i knew what he was up to and my family shunned him for the lifestyle he lived and potential danger i could run into just by being affiliated with him.