This is the male half of this account, /u/2maturesluts. Yes, men can be sluts, too.
About a year after we met in 1995, my then girlfiend, now wife, moved to the west coast, as far as I knew then, for good.
There were no smart phones and Tinder-like apps in 1996, hell, there were no dating web sites. This was the age of 28k dialup connections, when downloading one photo took some real patience.
But there were things called “bulletin boards,” and I signed up for one that was sexually related, Southern Nights. I posted an ad there with some photos, not expecting anything to come from it. And for a while, nothing did.
Then one day I got a reply from a woman who wanted to talk about her “situation.” We exchanged phone numbers, land lines, to give you an idea of how different things were.
When we spoke, she explained to me that she was a lesbian, who sometimes had the urge to fuck a man. I questioned this, suggesting maybe she was bisexual, not lesbian. But she said, no, she was involved in a long term lesbian relationship, and just desired the D every now and then. But it would have to be totally discrete, on her terms.