I posted ([https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/8zt59b/my_year_of_firsts_losing_my_virginity_for_the/](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/8zt59b/my_year_of_firsts_losing_my_virginity_for_the/)) earlier how I ended up on Tinder. One of my matches was with a Dutch guy named Tim who was in town on vacation. We weren’t able to meet up before he flew home, but in the time he was here we messaged and sexted. He ultimately became my catalyst. I essentially only had vanilla sex with my husband. The things that Tim told me he wanted to do opened me up to a whole new world: plugs, restraints, squirting, rimming, pegging…the list was long. He was the match that lit the kerosene – I wanted to experience it all.
So, when I came across David’s profile stating he was a Dom and was interested in potential Subs I paused. I kept reading and rereading his profile, looking at the pictures and with what Tim and I had exchanged in texts percolating inside of me. I was so curious, but timid. Knowing that swiping wasn’t a guarantee I inhaled and swiped right. The app chimed. We had matched. My heart skipped a beat…I was nervous with anticipation.