Author: 19CA86

Bit of background: Like the title says, my wife and I just started an open relationship. Been married almost 4 years, together about 11 total. We have one beautiful daughter together.

Other than a couple women I slept with while we were on a break before we got married, it’s been a while since I’ve been back in “the game.” I’m honestly not entirely sure where to start with everything.

My wife is more outgoing than me, and I k ow she’ll pull in more than I can get, which I’ve already come to terms with. I tend to be a bit more reserved than her, and slightly shy away from the idea of Tinder, more out of fear of someone recognizing me here where I live than anything else. Maybe I’ll come around to the idea, maybe not, who knows…

Figured Reddit was a good place to start, since it’s full of like minded people (and honestly an amazing dirty minded community). Looking for advice and people to chat with (both friendly and sexy chat welcomed).

My wife and I have been married for just under 4 years, together for about 10 years total. We have one beautiful daughter together. We still have very good sex (maybe not as frequently as we used to, but still good). We also are good at communicating our needs and concerns with eachother, and are both understanding, forgiving, and not the super jealous type. We had talked briefly about having an open relationship several times over the last year or so (usually after several drinks or so), but nothing ever came of it.

This week, however, that changed. We got serious about it and decided to make it official. We laid down some basic rules as a starter, and figured we’d probably be adding some later, changing some we started with and so forth. We talked about keeping our sex life together, having our own individual partners, and also bringing in new partners into the bedroom to play with together. Read more »