I haven’t done this before so please bear with me!
I’ve been with my bf for almost 2 years now, since just before I graduated from high school. (I’m 19 and he’s 20). He’s a tremendous person..tall, not too strong with a bit of “dad bod” on him, the sweetest guy ever. But here’s the thing:
*He’s just not that great in bed.*
He’s great at oral don’t get me wrong..but he just can’t *give it to me* you know? So over the last few months my mind has been wandering a bit farther with each time we have sex. He never lasts long, even with a condom, and isn’t very big if I’m being honest which has led to me getting a 7.5” dildo recently (a bit smaller than my ex but just as thick). When my bf finishes, I have him eat me out and fuck me with the dildo while I lay back and look down at him.
Doing this got me off plenty of times but now it’s just not enough, so when I really need that earthshaking orgasm I’ll close my eyes and picture my ex, who used to pound me almost every day. I don’t think he’s noticed that I’m fantasizing about another man doing me, but him having no idea and the sheer taboo of it rocks my world every single time.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/chv53y/fm_i_pretend_my_bf_is_my_ex_sometimes
You have an amazing ass. Would you try having a breakup sex with your ex to fulfill the need?
Maybe you should be honest with your man and you know talk to him about it. No guy wants to know they are inadequate but if you have to fantasize your having sex with your ex then maybe it’s time to talk to him about that. And if that’s not a possible thing to do then maybe it’s time to go your separate ways.
Better than pretending your ex is your bf while you’ve got your knees pinned by your ears in your ex’s bed. Awkward….