[W]ife [30] and I [M][32] decided to have an open relationship

My wife and I have been married for just under 4 years, together for about 10 years total. We have one beautiful daughter together. We still have very good sex (maybe not as frequently as we used to, but still good). We also are good at communicating our needs and concerns with eachother, and are both understanding, forgiving, and not the super jealous type. We had talked briefly about having an open relationship several times over the last year or so (usually after several drinks or so), but nothing ever came of it.

This week, however, that changed. We got serious about it and decided to make it official. We laid down some basic rules as a starter, and figured we’d probably be adding some later, changing some we started with and so forth. We talked about keeping our sex life together, having our own individual partners, and also bringing in new partners into the bedroom to play with together.

This all comes with a mixed bag of emotions: nervousness, fear of some jealousy, and obviously a lot of excitement. It’s been a while since I’ve been with someone else besides my wife, other than a few women while we had a couple breaks before we got married. I’m very excited at the prospect of playing with/talking to new women, yet nervous at the same time. The thought of having someone else new drives me a bit wild.

Still in the process of figuring out exactly where to start, as it’s been a while since I’ve been in the game, but figured Reddit would be a good place to get my toes wet. Appreciate advice or DM if you wanna chat more privately/intimately.

Me: 5’11”, 205lbs, athletic and in pretty good shape, above average size, and will probably post pics once I build up some courage…..

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/c0yx0n/wife_30_and_i_m32_decided_to_have_an_open

2 comments

  1. Happy for you both. My husband and I have had similar conversations but don’t think they will end as happily as yours. Best of luck to you too!

  2. We did this for a while. It seemed to be a great thing but then things changed. We had agreed to stop but then my wife was still sneaking around trying to hide she was still doing it. So I was pissed when I found out and I fucked a very sexy girl that was about 20 years old. I made sure she knew it. So it ended after that.

    But good luck to you both. And please be open and honest with each other.

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