As an assigned task, u/HerDom24 has asked me to write about my experience with tantric techniques and learning to cum in new ways.
It’s never been hard to make me cum. I’m lucky in that way. Over the last year or so though, it’s gotten to another level. One day towards the beginning of our relationship we were sitting on a bench by the water and he was lightly stroking my back under my shirt. I showed him my arm, covered in goosebumps, so he could see how his touch affected my whole body. He told me to just wait and see, that eventually he would be able to bring me to orgasm with just a light touch like that. I didn’t exactly say it to his face (or maybe I did…) but I thought he was nuts.
He told me from the beginning that he was a tantric Dom but I wasn’t exactly sure what that would mean for me. Turns out it means I have someone ready, willing, and able to guide me on a path to being more deeply connected to another person and to my own sexuality than I imagined.
The night he wanted to teach me some tantric techniques, we sat together on my living room floor and practiced synchronized breathing – connecting and getting in tune with each other’s bodies and energies. My specific memories of that night are fuzzy, because my focus was on feeling instead of thinking. That’s not always an easy thing for me. He told me to focus on my energy, to try and channel it to different parts of my body in an effort to be more aware and connected to what I was feeling.
Shortly after that night, we practiced. He kissed me, caressed my skin, spread my legs and touched my pussy. I felt like I was being touched in places inside that I didn’t know anyone could reach, literally and figuratively. We worked on channeling my energy through deep breathing and edging. Taking the orgasmic energy building in my pussy and sending it through my entire body. When I came, it was like a wave that kept washing over me again and again and again. When it was over I wasn’t even able to talk. My brain was swirling around and my body felt like it was on fire in an amazing way.
The best word to describe how tantra makes me feel is OPEN. My mind, my heart, my body – everything. Sometimes when I orgasm his fingers are deep inside me and I cling to him while tears run down my face. Sometimes (ok, 1 time) I shock myself when I actually do squirt. Actual really, truly, leave-a-puddle-on-the-bed squirting that I thought wasn’t possible for me. Other times I have his cock filling me up while I shudder on top of him and struggle to catch my breath. Just as I begin to come down, he runs his hand down along my spine and it starts all over again.
There are also orgasms that catch me by surprise. When he touches that one sensitive spot on my hip and I feel it all over. After being away from him for three days, the built-up sexual energy exploded as soon as I felt the hardness of his cock in my hand and began to stroke him. Just the other morning, sitting in traffic on the way to work. One hand on the wheel, the other caressing my hand, my wrist, up my arm. I came for him 3, 4, 5 times just sitting in the passenger seat. It was one of the most erotic experiences I’ve ever had.
At this point, I can’t say I’m a student of tantra. I haven’t done any deep dives or gone to any seminars. I’m a student of u/HerDom24 and I’m learning more and more every day.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/c09ijz/my_story_about_learning_tantric_techniques_f